You know you're unhappy and suffering. It's becoming difficult to continue in this relationship. You've been living in a situation that, metaphorically speaking, has gone rotten for a long time. You used to tolerate their mistakes, but now you don't let them get away with anything. The mutual recriminations are constant. Or the prolonged silences give rise to a sad coexistence. Love has turned into indifference, or even hatred.
You ask yourself the million-dollar question: Do I want to spend the rest of my life with this person? Your heart's answer is no, and you know it. You sense that, sooner or later, you will each go your separate ways. Since you don't feel capable of making the decision to end the relationship, you deceive yourself by hoping that your partner will get tired of it and leave you.
You are like a prisoner whose cell door has been opened for him to leave, but who prefers to stay inside for fear of freedom.
You don't take the step because of your mental barriers. Stop and think about the reasons that prevent you from following another path. You will have your justification for each of them. Dig a little deeper and you will see that they are nothing more than excuses resulting from deep-rooted beliefs. Deep down, it is fear of change.
One of your biggest obstacles may be loneliness. Don't be afraid of it. You will benefit from some time to reflect. Don't fall into the trap of judging others, as it will get you nowhere. You ask yourself: with whom will I share my life? The answer, for now, is with yourself. Learn to love yourself. Be kind to your mistakes, because in those situations you acted as best you knew how. Value yourself for what you have done and look forward to what you will be able to experience.
Separation can also mean losing family relationships and friendships. Don't worry, because the people who truly appreciate you for who you are will remain by your side.
People who have had the courage and determination to take the plunge wonder how they endured so much suffering for so long. Trust and just focus on your new life.
And if, for whatever reason, you decide not to separate to stop suffering, you have to see the relationship in a different way. Don't let what happens outside of you make you lose your inner peace. And you will achieve this by surrendering every situation or unloving thought to your Being, your essence, your wisest and most luminous part, which will help you understand that your partner acts this way out of fear. Instead of seeing them as someone who is against you, you will pause for a moment and open your heart to feel them as someone who, deep down, is suffering from not being in Love. The new perception that your Being will give you will bring you the peace you need.
You ask yourself the million-dollar question: Do I want to spend the rest of my life with this person? Your heart's answer is no, and you know it. You sense that, sooner or later, you will each go your separate ways. Since you don't feel capable of making the decision to end the relationship, you deceive yourself by hoping that your partner will get tired of it and leave you.
You are like a prisoner whose cell door has been opened for him to leave, but who prefers to stay inside for fear of freedom.
You don't take the step because of your mental barriers. Stop and think about the reasons that prevent you from following another path. You will have your justification for each of them. Dig a little deeper and you will see that they are nothing more than excuses resulting from deep-rooted beliefs. Deep down, it is fear of change.
One of your biggest obstacles may be loneliness. Don't be afraid of it. You will benefit from some time to reflect. Don't fall into the trap of judging others, as it will get you nowhere. You ask yourself: with whom will I share my life? The answer, for now, is with yourself. Learn to love yourself. Be kind to your mistakes, because in those situations you acted as best you knew how. Value yourself for what you have done and look forward to what you will be able to experience.
Separation can also mean losing family relationships and friendships. Don't worry, because the people who truly appreciate you for who you are will remain by your side.
People who have had the courage and determination to take the plunge wonder how they endured so much suffering for so long. Trust and just focus on your new life.
And if, for whatever reason, you decide not to separate to stop suffering, you have to see the relationship in a different way. Don't let what happens outside of you make you lose your inner peace. And you will achieve this by surrendering every situation or unloving thought to your Being, your essence, your wisest and most luminous part, which will help you understand that your partner acts this way out of fear. Instead of seeing them as someone who is against you, you will pause for a moment and open your heart to feel them as someone who, deep down, is suffering from not being in Love. The new perception that your Being will give you will bring you the peace you need.
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